Random Entry

To those UTP students out there, the topic has got nothing to do with our Thinking Skills lecture. It is just really a random entry for my blog.

I've just realised that, like Jared and Jia Min, I've been tagged by Joanna Chia in her blog. Well, I guess it's only fair that I tell you about some of the criteria that I look for from my perfect lover

A few things about my perfect lover

1. She has to be a wonderful cook! I can't imagine my future family going out for meals every day. I believe that it's only our responsibility that my family, including my children, should get proper meals at home.
2. She doesn't need to have such a high education (but I don't mind university graduated girls). What is more important is that my lover should know how to take care of the family. I believe that a mother's main responsibility is to care for the family and the household. She doesn't need to go out and work in order to earn a living for the family. The mother would play an important role in raising the children and educating them, whereas it is only fair that the father earns a living for the family to survive.
3. She has to be matured in thinking. I particularly dislike women who marry but still bearing some childish attitude even after the couple have children. It's important that the mother (father, too) shows good example to the children and instil maturity in them. After all, mothers are normally most respected or revered (I guess that accounts for the Mother's Day being celebrated before Father's Day).
4. She should respect my parents as well (and I shall respect hers). She must allow me to show my undivided love to my parents as well as to her. She must understand that my parents should come first, because without them, I would not be what I am today. Without my parents, my lover may not love me after all, too. (Note: If any girls were to ask me this kind of question: "Who do you love more, your parents or me? You have to choose either one." I'm sorry, I will not hesitate to say, "My parents.")
5. Most importantly, she must trust and put her faith in me, for doubting will only cause love to diminish and eventually destroyed. When a person doubts one's loyalty, the essence of love simply vanishes, for doubts will never make one happy.
6. My lover should also be a forgiving person. Nobody is perfect, so I expect her to be patient and forgiving if I were to do anything wrong. In return, I shall be a very forgiving and patient person, too (Note: I've been a very patient person for 18 years, and counting).

Am I that demanding? I do wonder if I'd be able to find my perfect lover. Only time will tell.